Characteristics of the Noncomitting Man

 He pulls back when you want more of a commitment

* Other aspects of life take priority over you

* He puts little work into the relationship

* When you show less interest, he pursues you.

* He makes excuses for not being involved in a single relationship

* He's charming and fun to be around

* He is always involved with several women or overlapping relationships

* He likes to be entertained rather than spending quiet times together

* He never answers his phone in the evenings because he's out chasing skirts

* He is secretive about the details of his life

* If the phone rings when you are at his house, he lets the answering machine pick it up

* He seems to get his emotional needs met elsewhere

* You catch him in "white" lies

i must follow what i feel

Lastnight i should have not ignored his text..ive been so cold with him lately because he dont spend enough time for me..But that shouldnt be the case, since im free this summer then it should be me who would adjust his time..one should give way or understand once partner in order for it to last…Well with this relationship that were having, i know its impossible for it to last but still im holding on with it, cause that person still brightens and fill in my days…He explained everything and thats good enough for me…i promise myself to be more understanding with this guy…every time i decided to let go he kept on giving me reasons to stay…and as of the moment il stay as long as we both wants to…and with regards about friends, this time i wont be open to them about my personal life especially if it deals with man…cause they kept on giving me unsolicited advice which unconsciously runs into my mind…they generalized all MEN, i still i do believed that not all MEN are the same…to some but not to all.And besides some friends are not really sincere with the advice they gave..some just envy and would want others to suffer with the life that they are having…